Out of State vs Studying Abroad

     I have always imagined myself leaving for college so that I can grow independently as a person.  Preferably, I would want to leave out of state or a couple hours away in order for myself to build a close bond with my campus and make life long friends and memories. However, this past year circumstances have changed.  My family has gained a new member, my baby sister, and I find myself leaning toward attending a local college.  Attending a local college would have its perks including that I wouldn't have to deal with the stress of leaving my family and that it is a cheaper option.  Another viable option for me would be to study abroad while attending a local college so that in a way, I still fulfill my desire to gain life experiences independently.  Should I leave out of state and develop a relationship with my campus or stay local and take the opportunity to study abroad?  Also, if I do study abroad, would it slow down my process of graduating on time with the necessary credits?